If you haven't already, meet this guy. He’s a 30-something single professional who wants to help the ladies out by giving us the (sometimes harsh) truth about relationships and sex. I’ll be posting questions and answers periodically. If you have a question, email BecauseISaidSoBlog@gmail.com. Note: Are some of these answers new concepts? Maybe, maybe not. But as long as we ... Read More
Ask This Guy: Straight, No Chaser
We had a great date. Why didn't he call? Why does he only text me? Why won't he open up to me? On and on....Ugh. Ladies, we've all been there at some point. Most of the time, we'll vent to besties or other loved ones, but rarely do we go to straight to the source: the man. Since when can a woman give you authentic insight into what a man is really thinking? We think too ... Read More
Ladies in Waiting
Earlier this week, I was IM'ing a friend. I consider her to be a little sister of sorts even though we've never even met in person. She's only about 20 years old. The conversation entailed me giving her reasons not to lurk around on her ex-boyfriend's Facebook page (as if I could talk), since she's dating someone else. She made a note to stay focused, and then she made this ... Read More
Tough Love
Dating is an art---an art that I have yet to master, I'll admit. I'm watching the second season of Tough Love as I type. As I continue to watch, it makes me wonder how many relationships there are that are doomed before they even begin because they are based on the assumptions of the opposite sex. How many women and men are in relationships to compensate for a void in childhood ... Read More